Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #8

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #613459876 .... sorry I have forgotten what day it is (actually only day #8 but feels like the other one) - 

To all my friend in the UK and South Africa on Total Lock-down, please stay safe! 

We wait to hear later today if we will be on total lock-down, over the week-end people were out in the sunny weather, not social distancing so the government is stepping up our confinement to stop people socializing. 

Apparently there was a house party in Longford with 80 people??? Some people are just not taking it seriously enough!

On Sunday Derrick and Emily have both shaved their heads in aid of Cancer, I'm asking for donations to Irish Cancer Society. 

We've chosen this charity because their mission means a lot to me, and I hope that you'll consider contributing as a way of celebrating with us. Every little bit will help us reach our goal. I've included information about Irish Cancer Society below.


Together we prevent cancer, empower and support people, and save lives.

Rose-Marie Rowe's photo.


Sunday, March 22, 2020

Government Curtailment Day #10

Happy Mother's day to all the moms out there ... treats from my gorgeous daughter ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’•






Today would be a mothers day like no other mothers day, most of the shops are shut now except for essentials, like Chemists, Supermarkets, petrol stations, but mostly everything else has been ordered to shut, so you cannot get a mother's day card.

But luckily we can buy Alcohol and Cigarettes and of course those supermarkets that have flowers we can get flowers, hence Mother's day was not all that bad!




Saturday, March 21, 2020

Coronavirus Government curtailment ... day 9 ? I think

Kenny Rogers - WikipediaI Just read that Kenny Rogers passed away in the last 24 hours, very sad! R.I.P Will always remember him for "Ruby, don't take your love to town" and also Sol Kerzner, ๐Ÿ˜ญ for those of you who do not know Sol Kerzner, he was a property tycoon in South Africa and built Sun City in the then homeland Bophuthatswana. 

Wiki have a great write up on Sol kerzner. 


Friday, March 20, 2020

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #6

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #6... 

My wonderful husband and I worked in the same company for many years, however we did not spend 24/7 together as we worked in different departments, but through my illness last year he worked from home and looked after me, so being together for long periods of time is not new to us, and thank goodness Emily is almost 17 and can do her lessons on line!

 I empathize with parents that have small children and have to monitor what they are doing all the time and also work from home, my  and thoughts go out to you all!   





Thursday, March 19, 2020

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #5

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #5... 

Photos from my lunchtime walk.

An interesting fact I heard yesterday from a friend who lives in the South of France, so the French people were not taking the Lock down seriously, so the government introduced a system whereby you need to download a permit in order to go anywhere, for a walk, to the shops etc. etc. If you are caught without a permit you will be fined €135! It seems to now have worked in keeping people from Socializing in parks and other places.



We're lucky enough to have a walking trail behind our house accessed by an "illegal" gate we have in our back garden!



Wednesday, March 18, 2020

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #4

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #4 ...

Today was a challenging day, trying to learn something new on the product with only colleagues at the other side of Zoom to help.

The DJ on the radio said by the time Coronavirus is over and we are no longer all in self isolation, how many divorces will there be ๐Ÿ˜‚.

So tired of reading about Nostradamus predictions, Siener Van Rensburg and every other person who has interpreted this as "The end of the World" and the apocalypse has arrived! If it is, I really don't need everyone telling me.

Tired of Conspiracy theories ... China invented this disease so they could take over the world! - seriously???


People spreading Fake News - Yes Mr. Trump now we all know what "Fake News" means, till tomorrow - stay safe and listen to music!!!


I bet those people who live close to airports are celebrating the lack of Noise!



Tuesday, March 17, 2020

Coronavirus Curbing the Spread Government Curtailment Day #5

Today is St. Patrick's day, however the parades all over Ireland and the USA have been cancelled due to this Virus, a very bad day for pubs as they are all closed and this is the day they would make a killing!

Coronavirus government curtailment day #5 how many of you wish yo could wake up and the nightmare would be over?
Happy St. Patrick’s day!
We need to do the long walk in the country today, blow out the cobwebs!
๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€ Happy birthday Roni and Melanie ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€
It's strange to think that last year today I woke up after being in a coma for 6 days, it reminds me how we need to appreciate each day we have left on this earth, and never take anything for granted! Be kind to everyone as we are all fighting our own battles! And who knows if all of us will come out unscathed from this Covid-19 epidemic.
Take care everyone, and spread the love   

Coronavirus: 69 new cases on quietest St Patrick's Day | Business Post




Monday, March 16, 2020

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #3

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #3 ... 

What a weird day, I had to pop into work to collect some manuals, OMG every person on the road was driving like an a*%hole, seriously!!!

So thought I would let you know some interesting facts:

The Tokyo Olympics:

The 1st Tokyo Olympics should have been held in the summer of 1940, however due to WW2 this was first moved to Helsinki and then cancelled.
The 2nd Tokyo Olympics 1964 the first Olympics held in Asia, this went ahead as Normal
The 3rd Tokyo Olympics 2020, 56 years after it was held previously Scheduled for this year, will it go ahead? We wait and see.

Image may contain: sky, possible text that says 'TOKYO 2020'

Oh by the way I am on leave this afternoon, so you may hear from me again ๐Ÿ˜

Saturday, March 14, 2020

Coronavirus goverment curtailment day #2

Coronavirus goverment curtailment day #2 - Movies to go or not to go? "Call of the wild" ...

The Call of the Wild | Eye Cinema

We did go - It was very eerie and strange, we were the only 2 people in the Movie house and it was "The Mezz" which is a movie house with huge leather arm chairs, and they showed the movie just for the 2 of us, Emily had gone to meet her friend Roisin and we met up with them and all went to Eddie Rockets for luch. 

Friday, March 13, 2020

Ireland ... Coronavirus Curbing the Spread WFH Day #2

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #2 ... 


I didn't report anything today, I guess it was just another work from home day!  The government also put it out to all companies that if employees could work from home they had to do so from now on. 


All schools were shut as from today and students who could do online classes would be doing it from today until further notice.  This was announced on Friday the 13th of March however Emily was already told to stay home. 

Everyone was in a state of shock.  

RTร‰ journalist makes interesting point about those working from ...

Thursday, March 12, 2020

Coronavirus Curbing the spread - WFH Day #1 ...

I woke up this morning at my normal time, roughly 6:15 a.m. and was getting dressed when I heard a message come through on my phone - actually now that I am looking it was 06:01 and a new Group Whatsapp "Coronavirus update".

It read - Hi guys, there as an email last night that requires everyone to wfh until March 31st starting immediately.  From The Boss at work - so I just thought okay cool, back to bed.

It's hard to think now that I am writing this in retrospect how it all started, I know we had heard about the virus since January, but never thought it might become an epidemic.

Coronavirus: The latest major adjustment to testing eligibility ...

Sunday, January 5, 2020

A haunting Trip to Cobh


My friend Liza was coming over from South Africa to visit us, and Derrick's old School friend was going to be in Cork, so we decided to go down to Cobh in Co. Cork for a week-end and show Liza a bit of Ireland and on the way pop in to see Charles and his daughter Emily.

We left in really crappy rainy weather and drove down, thank goodness for Google maps we found the farm no problem.  They had put on a really nice lunch for us, so we spent a few hours and then continued down to Cobh.

We arrived in Cobh on the evening of the 2nd of January, we were pretty tired so just went to our rooms and then down for dinner.  My Emily and Liza shared a room which was a few doors away from where our room was, we had a sea view. 

The hotel we stayed in was the Commodore Hotel, I found it on booking.com and it was on the main road not far from the Titanic experience which I wanted to take Liza to see.   I did not do too much research on the hotel, for a small town it looked nice, I read a few reviews - someone said it was noisy, but I thought well for 2 nights it will be fine, the price was very reasonable too.

The Commodore Hotel was completed in 1854 and opened as the Queens Hotel. The name commemorated the fact that Queen Victoria, on her first ever visit to Ireland, had stepped ashore just a few yards from the site of the new hotel. 

The first evening we were there we were in the room just chilling before dinner and at one stage it got icy cold, it was winter, however it was unusual for the room to be so cold.  I remember putting the heater on and covering myself with the blanket.

I don't remember too much about that evening but I do remember waking up in the early hours of the morning because I heard people talking, I thought there must be people in the room next to us.

The next day, we woke had breakfast and then did some sightseeing around cove, we had been there before but like I mentioned wanted to do the Titanic Experience, after we went for lunch and met a work colleague of mine.    By this time it was late afternoon, we then went back to the hotel for a coffee and chat.  My friend left and we went up to the room, we decided not to do Dinner at the hotel again but to go round to the pub, which we did.

After a few drinks we went back to the hotel.  Again that night I remember waking up in the middle of the night or early morning with noises, but I promptly went back to sleep.  We waited for Liza at breakfast and she came down like a bear with a sore head, she said she hardly slept because there was someone above her room marching up and down with heavy boots the whole night.  She told me to remember to put in a complaint when we were checking out.

So once we had collected our stuff, I went to reception to check out and mentioned to the lady that Liza could not sleep as there was someone walking up and down with heavy boots the whole night in the room above.   So she said:  "There is no room above" ......... then she said to me you see that man sitting at the table there, he is a tour guide, tell him what happened.

So according to this Gentleman, an Army sergeant going off to join the Crimean war was staying in the hotel whilst the ship was en route to collect him and other soldiers.  The Soldier committed suicide in the hotel and it is said that you can often hear him marching up and down, well both Liza and myself got the shivers.   He also told us other stories of people hearing a baby crying in the middle of the night, and this was the ghost of a baby whose mother was waiting for a ship to go to New York, she was a single mother and she left the baby in a suitcase in the room.  I guess she hoped that someone would find the baby and hand it in, but alas the baby died in the suitcase.

The hotel also had guests who were joining the Titanic on her Maiden voyage to New York and hence the "Titanic Experience" in Cove.  When I got home I did some research and it was true we would not be the only one's to hear noises in the hotel.  I wish I had known before we stayed there, however I somehow think had we read all these reviews we would never have heard the noises.

It also appeared that after the sinking of the Lusitania, the hotel was turned into a hospital and Morgue, so the sounds we heard that night could also have been the moving of beds around.

At least Liza had an experience that she could tell everyone when she got back home.

I found this write up on the hotel as well: https://www.travelmyth.ie/Cobh/Hotels/haunted-historic

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Was Rene Zellweger abducted by Aliens and an imposter taken over?

 
 
I just think there is no way someone can change their looks so drastically, even the eyes are different and normally when someone changes their face, you can still recognize them from their eyes.
 
Has she perhaps been kidnapped and held hostage while someone else claims her fame?
 
 
Was she abducted by Aliens?  From the photo above, even the neck bones seem different - has anyone done a DNA test to ensure it is her?
 
 
What do you think ?

Sunday, June 14, 2015

Why people leave South Africa ....

Note: I am not writing this post to stir up a hornets nest or to be hung out and lambasted because of what I say, these are just my own thoughts on leaving South Africa. I am not a proffessional writer and my thoughts maybe all over the place.

Before I go into my reasons that I think people leave South Africa I have to go back to where we came from.  I am still and always will be a patriotic South African but I don't see myself living there again, at the age of 51, I don't want to start over again.  So here are my thoughts ... 

I often wondered where my origins started as my mothers family had been in South Africa for a couple of hundred years before I came along.  They were or could have been part of the French Huguenots that landed in the Cape in 1687 or they may have arrived at a later stage.

So when we were visiting Paris recently and of course my mothers maiden name which is "Marais" seems quite prominent in the districts of Paris - Le Marais is the closest you will get to the feel of medieval Paris and has more pre-revolutionary buildings and streets left intact than any other area in Paris. A glance at some of the beautiful buildings and houses indicates the wealthy status of the former residents. After the revolution, much of the area was abandoned by the rich, and poor bohemian types moved in. 

My mothers Mother maiden name was "De Villiers", so I had to ask why and how did they come to South Africa, I tried doing the whole genealogy thing, but there were too many Marais and too many with the same first name, so I really just gave that up.  So lets just concentrate on the French Huguenots arriving in South Africa. 

Who were the French Huguenots?

The Huguenots were French Protestants most of whom eventually came to follow the teachings of John Calvin, and who, due to religious persecution, were forced to flee France to other countries in the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries. Some remained, practicing their Faith in secret. 

The Protestant Reformation began by Martin Luther in Germany about 1517, spread rapidly in France, especially among those having grievances against the established order of government. As Protestantism grew and developed in France it generally abandoned the Lutheran form, and took the shape of Calvinism. 

The new "Reformed religion" practiced by many members of the French nobility and social middle-class, based on a belief in salvation through individual faith without the need for the intercession of a church hierarchy and on the belief in an individuals right to interpret scriptures for themselves, placed these French Protestants in direct theological conflict with both the Catholic Church and the King of France in the theocratic system which prevailed at that time. Followers of this new Protestantism were soon accused of heresy against the Catholic government and the established religion of France, and a General Edict urging extermination of these heretics (Huguenots) was issued in 1536. 

Nevertheless, Protestantism continued to spread and grow, and about 1555 the first Huguenot church was founded in a home in Paris based upon the teachings of John Calvin. The number and influence of the French Reformers (Huguenots) continued to increase after this event, leading to an escalation in hostility and conflict between the Catholic Church/State and the Huguenots. Finally, in 1562, some 1200 Huguenots were slain at Vassey, France, thus igniting the French Wars of Religion which would devastate France for the next thirty-five years. 

The Edict of Nantes, signed by Henry IV in April, 1598, ended the Wars of Religion, and allowed the Huguenots some religious freedoms, including free exercise of their religion in 20 specified towns of France. 

The Revocation of the Edict of Nantes by Louis XIV in October, 1685, began a new persecution of the Huguenots, and hundreds of thousands of Huguenots fled France to other countries. The Promulgation of the Edict of Toleration in November, 1787, partially restored the civil and religious rights of Huguenots in France. 

Since the Huguenots of France were in large part artisans, craftsmen, and professional people, they were usually well-received in the countries to which they fled for refuge when religious discrimination or overt persecution caused them to leave France. 

Most of them went initially to Germany, the Netherlands, and England, although some found their way eventually to places as remote as South Africa. 

 Considerable numbers of Huguenots migrated to British North America, especially to the Carolina's, Virginia, Pennsylvania, and New York. 

Their character and talents in the arts, sciences, and industry were such that they are generally felt to have been a substantial loss to the French society from which they had been forced to withdraw, and a corresponding gain to the communities and nations into which they settled. 

Here is another link with interesting facts about the Huguenots 

If you think about it, it is so similar to what is happening today, people in the middle East and Africa fleeing their countries by the boat load on a daily basis in search of a better country, only these days they don't encounter open spaces to settle, but are faced with incarceration in a detention centre some for a few years before they are re-settled in a country in Europe.   But that is a whole different post, especially in light of over population in the world today!


Facebook 

There have been a lot of debates on Facebook recently with people wanting to leave South Africa because of the crime, and of course some slating them because of their choices.  I am sure hundreds of years ago when people were fleeing France because of persecution, people were probably doing exactly the same.  

If any of you have been following my blog or my interview on the expats blog you will know that I never left South Africa, we decided to go on a working holiday and somehow we just never went back, not that we did not think about it all the time as our plan was only to spend 5 years abroad and then go home.

In our case when you finally realize that there is no going back, mainly due to our situation it stirs up all those emotions that people who decide to leave for good have.   The depression, the anxiety, the loneliness.

People have been migrating from Europe to South Africa backwards and forwards for centuries.  I am sure not all the French Huguenots stayed, some of them must have returned.  

So why do people leave South Africa

This is a choice a personal difficult choice, when they find that they can no longer live in a country that cannot guarantee their safety.  That dictates to companies who they can and cannot employ.   When friends and or family are being attacked and murdered and you fear your own safety, when you feel that you can no longer live like that.

I have read some horrific stories on Facebook recently, the debates are endless, back in the 90's at the end of apartheid when people were leaving in droves, the called it "the chicken run" and yes I was one of those as well, when my friends and their parents were leaving for Canada and the UK, I said they were on the Chicken run.

But one day I sat back and spoke to my best friend who was born in Scotland and I said to her, why don't you leave you have a passport, and she said I love South Africa, I love the weather and if the Sh!t hits the fan, the British Embassy will protect me as I am a british subject, if there is war they will fly us all back to the UK.    

Where did that leave me, I was South African through and through for the past 300 years my family had been there, we were so mixed in culture, from being solely from a French background on my mothers side, I then found out that my mother's grandmother was German and there was Dutch somewhere along the line too.   My father destroyed all his papers and although we thought he came from Australia there was hints of Scotts and Irish too, so if I wanted to leave I had to do it on my own, with No help from the family tree.  


Our New Home 

We have been in Ireland now for 14 years, my daughter was born here it is the ony home she knows.  She loves South Africa and she knows it was our home, but she has said that she never wants to live there.  She loves the fact that she can climb on her bicycle and ride down the road to Girl Guides on a Friday or ride to her friends house.  We do have a burgler alarm and there is crime in our area, but it would be classed as Petty theft if you lived in SA.  

There are a few murders, but most of these are drug related and unfortunately there have been a few murders because of mistaken identity.  Recently we have had a few car jackings, but very very seldom are people killed, tortured or raped.   My aunt was raped in SA while she was visiting her late husband's grave to put flowers on the grave.

For now I choose to be here in Ireland but who knows this may change in a few years time, we just wait and see.